Per discussion in PR#3998 to review adding a `--filter` flag to `string
replace` rename the same flag in the `string match` subcommand to avoid
confusion about the meaning of the flag.
pcre2_substitute() now sets the output buffer length to PCRE2_UNSET (~0)
if the output buffer is determined to be too small. This change keeps
track of the buffer size separately where pcre2 can't touch it.
A better fix would be to let pcre2 tell fish what size buffer it needs.
This can be done with PCRE2_SUBSTITUTE_OVERFLOW_LENGTH, but this
requires pcre2 10.21 or later (released January 12), which may be too
new to introduce as a dependency at this point.
Fixes#2743
