Backport #28593 by @lunny
This reverts commit b35d3fddfac389a7be401a63b4e1283dd74af681.
This is totally wrong. I think `Update join` hasn't been supported well
by xorm.
I just revert the PR and will try to send another one.
Co-authored-by: Lunny Xiao <xiaolunwen@gmail.com>